Allright, ya'll, I haven't written here in quite a while so I thought that I would for once.

So, what am I thinking about right now?

I'm thinking a lot about what it means to be a girlfriend or boyfriend...  In the past I've been known to have my potential significant other fill out an application before calling the person a boyfriend or girlfriend.  (Yes, seriously.)  Is that ridiculous?  (Yes, probably)  But it makes it very clear what the other person is getting into.  (a bowl full of crazy)  I have to admit I've recently been called a girlfriend.  If I accept, do I have to participate in some sort of binary? If I accept, does that mean I am responsible for feeling a certain way?  Does that mean I responsible for feelings?  Can one be responsible for feelings?   If I accept do I have to stop having incredible sex with my ex?  Does the fact that I don't want to mean I am not ready to accept the title?  Is "girlfriend" even something you can accept or not accept?


Maybe the only girlfriend I'm ready to be is this one.

For more info on what I'm up to, look here.